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Perspective, Ma'am!

A lot of my learning is from the didi who comes to my place to work. I genuinely look forward to the evening chat. It is a good way to come out of all the stress in your life otherwise and find similarities and dissimilarities in life and ponder. I come to know about the latest home delivery shop around the corner, the not-so-good uncle in the building and also about the flawed PDS system and how she is denied of her ration at times.

Today was a dull day. I had a bad headache, fever and could not go to office. She came in the evening and sounded very depressed to see me. She told me ‘In the last 5 years I have never seen you this sick’. The emotions in her eye made me want to hug her- various forms of love and ways of expressing it or maybe when you are sick you look for that extra bit of love and attention.

What came after that left me stumped. She went about with her daily chores saying, you were looking so pretty in all your engagement pictures am sure ‘tumhe nazar lag geya hai’. And she went about suggesting ways to do away with the nazar. I did try to talk to her about pollution but she just refused to believe me. Can I really blame her when the biggest of the world leaders are not ready to believe?!

But why I write this blog is because I am amused how perspectives are built and how a situation is viewed so differently -maybe because of the access to education, maybe because of the social circles or maybe there are other reasons. 

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